I was in a 2 1/2 year long relationship and it wasnt the best... it was bad... so i finally worked up the courage and left.. and a little before i left i had made a new friend we were both in relationships that were a little rocky mine more than his and he's engaged to be married we became really close. he helped me through my break up its only been 2 months but he's been there for me for lots of things.. but somewhere in the past 2 months he decided to tell me he was starting to have feelings for me.. and so do I. we've tried to just be friends but we ended up hooking up. and its the best ever! he gets married in 2 weeks.. and i dont know what im doing im the other woman in his relationship but i dont wanna let him go... i know he's scared but so am i im not asking him to leave his gf im asking him to leave me but he says he cant he said he wants to be with me. but he proposed to this girl and a few months later were here. shes not faithful to him either.. ugh i dont miss my ex. i want this guy thats not mine!!
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Look. The guy is cheating on his fiance. Will you become his fiance and then trust him ever? Whats to keep him from cheating on you too? What does that say about him that he asked her to marry him and then sees you on the side. Does it make you feel like a wh*re? Because it should, and that's what you've become - morally bankrupt. She's the one with the ring and the wedding. Maybe you should tell him to break up with her or to forget it. But worms that women like you don't have the brains to do what's right.
1I guess this answer is late, but he should have stopped the wedding once you & he hooked up. It's never good to get married when there are questions with either party. It will only end in divorce otherwise; unless they are willing to have an open marriage
2Yeesssssh!! Don't listen to *Dikke kus* (someone took this entry a little too serious)
Any who, I will agree that what you are doing is WRONG, and obviously same goes to him. If he hasn't left his finance that he is marrying in 2 weeks for you now, chances are hes NOT going too.. Once a cheater, always a cheater, remember that!
Second, thats right you are just the other woman, accept it and if you want f*cking embrace it and MOVE ON, know where you stand, your not his girlfriend, wife or finance, your the girl he calls when his finance is out, your the girl he texts when hes alone, not the girl he proposed to or bed with at night. You're none of that, and sweetie, ever thought he might getting his kicks before he says the big "I do"??
Good luck babe
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